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Sperm - gate

mrsvld
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05 Jun 2015

So off St.John went to James cook – now this is only what St.John told me I wasn’t there!!! He went and provided his sample then had to make some decisions. The sperm is stored for 10 years but he had to make a decision about – if he died because of the cancer – would I still be able to use it? He said No – not because he didn’t want me to use it but he though I wouldn’t have (I wouldn’t – personally I would not have had St.Johns child without him). He felt slightly bullied into agreeing to allow me to use it and signed that I could. He told me this when he came home and I promised him – if something happened to him I wouldn’t use – a decision I still stand by (a personal choice and I know you will not all agree with me), but I respected him too.

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09.06.2015

Vicky, again thank you so much for being so open about an issue that many find difficult to talk about (even more so than the cancer itself in many cases).

I had to make similar decisions at a stage in life when I didn't even have a girlfriend let along a wife or life-long partner. It was so long ago now and you've really thrown into focus for me the fact that I need to check the state of play with things. Thank you!