Acute myeloid leukaemia (AML) practical support

When you are first diagnosed with AML, you might simply feel shocked or stunned.

Many people describe staying strong for their family or not wanting to break down. But most people also feel scared, lonely or isolated at other times.

We are here if you want to talk or have any questions or worries:

• Contact our Support Service and tell us you’ve been diagnosed with AML. We can talk you through what to expect and help you think of questions to ask your medical team.
• Read success stories - there are lots of people who have recovered from AML.
• Talk to other people with AML who’ve been where you are.
• Order this guide to AML, a booklet about diagnosis, treatment, and other people’s experiences of AML.
• Order this booklet for people newly diagnosed, which covers the key things to know, and how you can help yourself.

If someone you love has been diagnosed with blood cancer, we are here for you too.

You might be dealing with difficult emotions of fear, isolation or being powerless. You might also be managing lots of practical things at home.

Come to us for the support you need:

• Contact our Support Service and tell us what’s happening.
• Read success stories - there are lots of people who have recovered from AML.
• Talk to other families and friends facing AML – sometimes the best support comes from other people in similar situations.
• Order free copies of this guide about AML, a booklet about diagnosis, treatment, and other people’s experiences of AML.
• Find more information online for family and friends of people diagnosed with blood cancer.

If you have children in your family, you might be very worried about how they will cope with the AML.

Children will normally know that something is wrong, and their fear can be worse if they don't know what's happening.

It's important that children know they can ask questions and talk about the illness. You can help them by starting the conversation or asking them a question.

Telling children what to expect also helps them manage. For example, tell them if your hair will fall out, or tell them the plan if different people will be looking after them at times.

Your nurse or doctor can be a great source of advice on how you can support children through this. They might even be able to talk to children with you, explain things and answer their questions.

It's a good idea to tell their school what's happening too, so that teachers can keep an eye on how they are.

Of course it's still important for children to have fun, to do some of their normal activities, and have family time.

If one parent is in hospital, it's important that children can still do fun activities with their other parent or other family members or friends, even if it's just a movie night at home.

Try not to hold back your emotions in front of children all the time. Getting upset in front of them shows that they are allowed to get upset too, and it's not something they have to hide. When a parent is ill, it's always difficult for children, but they will remember that you were honest and open with them.

We often talk to people on our support line about telling people your diagnosis and dealing with different reactions. Contact our Support Service and we can help you prepare for talking to your children.

You can also talk to other parents and guardians about how they’ve supported children in this situation on our online community forum.